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Lizzo and the Art of Self-Acceptance

Langston Poe • September 24, 2019
Proof Lizzo's Self-Acceptance Journey Has Been 100 Percent Powerful

There are times when social media has the wonderful capability to capture one's journey in unimaginable ways. Take this YouTube video by StyleLikeU from 2014 titled, The Truth About Self-Acceptance.

The video features then up-and-coming artist Lizzo. In the video Lizzo truthfully answers probing questions while stripping down to her undies.  

The topics discussed are as diverse as Lizzo herself from loving the skin you are in- literally, the billions of dollars African-American women spend in the hair industry, Lizzo's skill as a flutist and her love of Anime character Sailor Moon.

Lizzo is one of the hottest artist today. Her words and music remind us that self-acceptance is a journey. Though each of us is on our own path, there is nothing wrong with encouraging each other along the way. The video ends with Lizzo stating one day she is "going to be like I feel sexy."

Recently Lizzo appeared on the television show, Good Morning America, and said, "Stop saying I'm 'brave I'm just sexy." She went from wanting to say, “I feel sexy” in 2014 to declaring, “I am sexy” in 2019. This declaration is just one of several things Lizzo speaks on in the video which appear to have come to fruition. 

Yet, I disagree with Lizzo, I believe she is in fact brave. By allowing us as viewers a glimpse into her documented truths, Lizzo capture's how one’s vulnerabilities can be utilized to empower and transform.  

Not only is this one of the best forms of bravery there is, it's also sexy!


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